Documentary vs Posed Wedding Photography in Colorado
(And Why Most Couples End Up Choosing Both)
One of the first questions couples ask is whether they want documentary wedding photography or more posed, staged, traditional images. It sounds like a big decision — and in some ways, it is.
But the truth is, most weddings live somewhere in the middle.
What Documentary Wedding Photography Really Means
Documentary photography focuses on real moments as they happen. It’s about observation rather than orchestration. Laughter, tears, small interactions you didn’t even realize were happening — these are the moments couples often treasure most later.
In Colorado weddings especially, documentary photography allows space for authenticity. You’re not stopping the day every few minutes. You’re living it.
Where Posed Photos Still Matter
That said, some moments benefit from gentle direction. Family formals. Wedding party portraits. A few intimate portraits of the two of you together.
Posed doesn’t have to mean stiff or awkward. When done well, it simply means guided — creating space for connection while making sure everyone looks their best. I like to prompt couples and their guests instead of posing them. Giving directions to, “cheer for the happy couple,” or “whisper in your partners ear what you had for breakfast… in a sexy way.” Those instructions typically will bring an authentic expression that feels comfortable and authentic.
The Best Wedding Photography Blends Both
Most couples don’t want an all-day photoshoot — but they also don’t want to skip portraits entirely. The sweet spot is a thoughtful mix: documentary coverage for the real moments, paired with efficient, relaxed portraits that don’t pull you away from your guests for long.
This balance keeps the day flowing and the photos feeling genuine.
Why This Matters for Colorado Weddings
With Colorado’s light, landscapes, and unpredictable weather, flexibility is key. A photographer who understands both approaches can adjust quickly and make the most of whatever the day brings — without forcing moments that don’t feel natural.
Final Thoughts
You don’t have to choose between real moments and beautiful portraits. With the right approach, you can have both. The biggest tip from me is to not over-do-it with the posed shots. Your day goes by so quickly and if you have trust in your photographer, they WILL collect an incredible amount of amazing images of you and your loved ones. If you want to make a shot list of family members remember one thing: this is your wedding, your time, and honestly time is money. If your priority is to have fun and spend time with loved ones than keep your shot list short. You wont hurt anyones feelings because you can still get candid images together that in my opinion are the photos that are going to be shared and remembered. Your smile will get tired, and getting pulled around all day by vendors isn’t that fun either, take my advice don’t overthink it, that’s my job.
If you’re planning a wedding in Longmont, CO or Boulder County and want photography that feels natural, balanced, and true to you, I’d love to help.
